SOALAN LEPASAN SPM: KERJA ATAU BELAJAR?

 

SOALAN POPULAR LEPASAN SPM: KERJA DULU ATAU BELAJAR DULU KAK?

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I just had a conversation with my cousins yang lepasan SPM, satu orang 4A and then the other 4 subjects all credit sorang lagi 3 credits. They asked me a few simple questions. Saya jumpa soalan ni beberapa kali sudah daripada pelajar-pelajar kita dan saya rasa bagus juga saya share disini:

#1. APA SAYA PATUT BUAT? KERJA ATAU SAMBUNG BELAJAR DULU?

Kenapa pilih salah satu kalau kamu boleh buat kedua-duanya sekali? Sambil kamu belajar kamu cari kerja sambilan (part-time). Bila kerja sambil belajar jangan lah terus kamu expect terus dapat kerja gempak-gempak gaji level Manager terus. Ada lagi ni yang paling lucu terus mau cari kerja Pilot. Seriously? Sabar. Kita buat step by step. Setiap perkara mesti akan ada proses-proses and we call them "learning process". Tak kisah kamu kerja #KFC, #STARBUCKS #COFFEBEAN #PIZZAHUT #SALESGIRL di #IMAGO #SURIAKK it doesn't matter! As long as kamu boleh generate income while you're studying. Sekurang-kurangnya tak perlu minta mak ayah atau penjaga kamu duit untuk sara diri kamu. Kenapa saya berani suggest work and study cuz I have done it before and kebanyakan senior2 dan junior2 buat perkara yang sama bukan saya seorang. So it is not something IMPOSSIBLE. Secara tidak langsung, kurang sudah satu tanggungan family kamu. Jap #KakShane share gambar waktu zaman kerja sambil belajar dulu-dulu:







Of course, it would not be easy. Banyak betul cabaran, kalau macam saya sendiri saya ada masalah gemuruh bila bercakap depan orang ramai tambahan pula saya punya english ni YES YES NO NO saja. #fahamfahamlah #brokenenglish. Tapi, macam saya cakap KITA BELAJAR. Bila belajar kena berfikiran terbuka. INGAT! The more the CHALLENGES, the more lesson you LEARNED. When you LEARNED, you'll GROW. Sedikit sebanyak perkara ni akan bagi kamu matang, bagi kamu fikir dengan cara lebih terbuka. Depends juga kamu orangnya macamana, ada yang jenis susah sikit terus QUIT ada yang susah sikit dia rasa mau buat lagi bagus sebab dia mau belajar. If you're a learner with a POSITIVE ATTITUDE, trust me you will go FAR & FLY HIGH!

 #2. "Banyak juga lepasan Diploma/Degree kerja yang tiada kaitan dengan kursus yang diorang belajar". 

Exactly. Tak semua akan bekerja dalam bidang yang diorang study sebab apa? Because most of them are grabbing whatever opportunity ahead of them. Being too picky would not help you at all. Sementara kamu apply kerja yang kamu mau, jangan lah tunggu kosong-kosong macam tu saja. Kata mau berdikari,mau tolong orang tua, so kerja ja apa2 dulu yang boleh bagi kita good experience. Contoh kerja yang bagi kita banyak berkomunikasi dengan ramai orang (benda ni boleh improve self-confidence and the develop communication skills kamu at the same time).

Dik, saya tidak boleh deny yang kita ni masing-masing ada #dreamjob tapi, biarlah kita ni berpada-pada dan realistik orang bilang dan juga seiring pada kita punya kelayakan orang bilang. 

3: "Nanti-nanti lah kak sambung belajar. Nanti-nanti lah juga tu kerja".

Kalau mak ayah kita ni tauke ladang kelapa sawit anak Tan Sri ka boleh lagi saya faham tapi kalau kita ni memang keluarga biasa-biasa memang cukup-cukup saja saya rasa kita tidak berlaku adil pada kedua orang tua kita. Ingat balik, diorang dah kerja keras untuk pastikan kita besar panjang, sihat walafiat kalau boleh segala keperluan dilengkapkan, sampai lah habis SPM apa lagi mau tunggu? Diorang tak selamanya dengan kita, dan kita juga tak selamanya dengan diorang. Salah seorang antara kita akan pergi dulu, so ambil peluang ni untuk berbakti semula pada mereka. Siapa mak ayah yang tak bangga tengok anak dia kerja elok, tengok anak dia pakai jubah konvo? 

Jauhkanlah perangai suka bertangguh, inilah antara perkara yang saya belajar daripada ucapan perasmian (Tuan) ASP. Johri Bin Rubinsin (Bahagian Pengurusan IPD Kota Kinabalu, Sabah) "Kita berusaha awal, impak dia kita akan dapat awal. Kita berusaha lambat, bertangguh-tangguhlah juga keputusannya nanti"- katanya. (Sumber: https://youtu.be/K5GkdgJ0KRc?t=74)



Sumber: HARI LAPOR DIRI MCP 2022 - SAITO SABAH

Last but not least, I would like to ask you this:

Do you think our parents aren't tired of waking up every morning without fail, pushing themself to go to work? I mean look at their age? For once just look at them while they're sleeping. If they have the options I believe they also want to have their own me time/ rest time but NO cuz they have no choice but to do that to put food on the table.

(Kamu fikir ibu ayah tak penat? Setiap hari bangun pagi, paksa diri pergi kerja tanpa gagal dengan usia diorang yang sekarang ni? Cuba sekali, pergi lah tengok muka diorang waktu diorang tidur maybe masatu kamu akan faham. Kalau diorang ada pilihan, saya percaya diorang pun mau ada masa sendiri atau masa rehat diorang tapi TIDAK. Diorang tiada pilihan, sebab diorang tahu diorang kena jalankan tanggungjawab untuk pastikan ada makanan di meja makan cukup untuk semua orang dalam rumah tu.)

4: ATTITUDE (perangai) kita akan menentukan sejauh mana kita pergi. 

#NEGATIVE ATTITUDE sikit-sikit susah, sikit-sikit give up, tidak boleh terima ajaran daripada  orang lain, EGO, belum apa-apa sudah jawab NO dan bodoh sombong Sampai sana ja lah cerita kita. Bye-bye gaman sudah? No. You can always change your attitude. MAU atau TIDAK saja. Semua daripada diri kamu sendiri. 

#POSITIVE ATTITUDE tak kisah susah sekarang, mahu belajar dan sentiasa belajar dengan orang sekeliling, sentiasa mau improve, hormat dengan orang sekeliling, sentiasa bangun balik lepas jatuh. Inshaa'Allah kamu boleh pergi jauh. 

Tipu lah bilang kalau tidak pernah nangis di bucu katil sepanjang perjalanan kan? Well I tell you IT'S NORMAL TO FEEL THAT WAY but DON'T DWELL TOO LONG IN IT. Bare in mind juga, tak selalunya kita akan SUCCESS. Tak selalunya kita di atas, itulah orang cakap hidup ni macam roda orang bilang. So always have #planABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ. So I wish you all the best everyone, akak pun sama juga macam kamu sebelum ni lepas SPM tidak pasti mau buat apa, kerja apa yang sesuai, kursus dalam bidang apa yang sesuai? Semua tu memang confusing! Soooo, kalau mau suggestion / bimbingan pendidikan atau kerjaya daripada #KakShane boleh whatsapp 019-8525407. See you when I see you!

P/s: I am writing this based on my personal view and I am aware we all have a different way of viewing things. Therefore, our views may vary and I respect whatever your views are, saya pun manusia juga ni kio. #peacekaboh :) 


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